• ​What are my choices?
  • What do I think of them?
  • What am I being pressured to do?
  • What do I think of that option?
  • How can I have a relationship with both my parents?
  • What do I know to be true about each of my parents?
  • What kind of person do I want to be?
  • What kind of person will I be…

         In one year’s time…
         In
five years’ time…
         In
10 years’ time…
         …if I am not true to myself?

  • What kind of person will I be…

         In one year’s time…
         In
five years’ time…
         In
10 years’ time…
         …if I am true to myself?

  • What kind of relationship do I want with both of my parents?
  • What do I believe?
  • Why do I believe it?
  • What is actually true?
  • What have I seen with my own eyes?
  • Is there another way to think about this?
  • What is the evidence to support this new way of thinking?
  • Could I be mistaken or have been told things that are not true?
  • Am I free to change my mind?
  • What would happen if I stopped believing what one parent has told me?

Here are some more questions to ask yourself. Take your time to really think about them.